What is a Goddess? When you think of a Goddess, you think of a beautiful Greek woman, with curly hair, soft drapped dresses, and soft features. The definition of a Goddess according to urban dictionary, is a woman who is so beautiful, brilliant, and wholesome that she is simply not like any other women on Earth and therefore possesses some sort of uncommon spiritual element that while is cannot be solidly defined, it is clearly present. I rather go more into depth with this one and expand the definition of a Goddess. This is what I think a Goddess is.
1.Everybody On This Planet That Carries The Feminine Energy Is A Goddess
Anything that carried the dominate feminine energy is a Goddess. Some have just not come into truth about it yet and that’s ok. We are all on a different spiritual journeys. A Goddess knows her truth. She stands on that truth with kindness, love, and assertiveness. She knows that taking care of her well-being is important to her. Her health emotionally and spiritually is important to her. When you make a core choice to make you and source priority, you have now graduated as a Goddess. When you have love for yourself, you feel the need to share, love, and care for others.
2. Competition Is An Ego Thing
A Goddess has no need for competition. We are all different, unique, and talented in our own way. So what if they do makeup too. If you enjoy it, it will grow uniquely for you. The outer beauty itself is subjective to everybody on the planet. The media have truly messed up what woman are supposed to all look like. As woman, we need to stop comparing ourselves with other woman. If you are cocky and not a kindle spirit to others, I could careless if you’re a model or not. You still have lots to learn about self-love and inner beauty.
3. A Goddess Taking Care Of Their Health
Taking care of your inner health is important. When you take care of your inner health by eating leafy greens, organic, and foods that are good for you, It will show on the outside no matter how short, tall, skinny, curvy, or voluminous you are. Food is powerful. It can change your attitude. People will notice you no matter what shape you are because you’re taking care of your health. Eating an apple in the morning, or doing yoga, can put you in a better mood. Drink plenty of water. Eating foods that are harmful for your organs or eating sugary cereals can affect your mood and your health. Drinking and smoking on a daily basis is not good for your health either. Take pride in your well-being. It’s ok to once in a while eat that bowl of ice cream and devour that chocolate bar, but indulging in bad food everyday is not good for you. It will affect your mood and well-being. Starving yourself is not ok either. You deserve to feel happy and feel good. Good food puts you in a better mood.
4. A Goddess Knows When To Say No
If you don’t want to do something then kindly say no. It’s ok to say no if you don’t want to. I truly love to help others when I can. But sometimes I seriously don’t want to and there is nothing wrong with that. If you already told someone you will help them, then keep your promise and word. Know your limits. For me, I’ll be honest, I have a hard time saying no. I have gotten better at it. Don’t be afraid to say no if someone is selling you something. Don’t make others make you feel bad. I use to feel really bad if I didn’t donate money to a group or didn’t buy something from someone. It’s ok to not donate or buy something. You have the rest of your life to donate and volunteer. It does not make you a bad person. Yes, definitely give back and help other but do it when it feel right for you and on your terms. If you are busy or have things to do, tell yourself it is ok to tell someone no.
5. A Goddess Is Not Perfect
No fricken way haha. I have made mistakes, we all have. We are all growing and will keep growing. A Goddess knows that she is not perfect, but she knows when to take responsiblity for her action and comes to truth even when it is hard. She will take risks if she is following her heart and true self. What’s ment to be will stay and always will. This includes friends, co workers, your job, and relationships. She knows her fears and accepts it. She makes peace with it and finds the core of why she feels like this. If you are an over thinker (like me) you can either use this to your advantage or you can use it as a negative and say its a weakness of mine. You can either hate yourself for it and say why me, or you can put a positive spin on it. For instance, as an over thinker, I am cautious about my environment, I think before taking action, I just want to make the right choices, I think about how it will affect in the long run. I know that it’s just me being an active thinker and worrier again. I can let it either consume me or I can make peace with it and choose to move through my day.
6. She Followers Her Heart And Desires
Start living the life you dreamed of. It’s time to be happy. Start doing activities or things that bring you happiness and sets your soul on fire. If money did not exist, what would you do? Start to play around. You don’t need to self sabotage your self by making hasty decision but some work better this way. Write down everything that you want to do. Does not matter how crazy it is. If it means emotional harm to your self and others, this is not source.
7. Feeling Good Is Priority
A Goddess knows that hurt people, are going to hurt others. Growing up, I have been hurt, bullied, lied, cheated on, taken for granted, ect. These people are souls crying for help. They are already lost and hurt within themselves and consumed by ego, fear, and hate. I love Yoda and his quote. Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering. I have had to do a lot of mediation to move past a lot of old hurt. For my happiness is priority. What ever energy I allow to consume me, it comes back. It’s ok to seek for help, it is ok to talk to a close friend if you are struggling. A Goddess knows when to seek help and ask for help if she needs it. If you have been hurt, you deserve to be happy and live a fulfilled life. Don’t let the hurt and fear of others affect your inner happiness. Allow yourself to feel the emotions. Accept the confusion and sadness. But make the core decision to get help and not have it snowball later down the road. Feel your emotions but don’t linger in it for years. This world needs love and good vibes. As you grow spiritually, you might lose friends along the way. People in your life that don’t serve you anymore. She does not invest time and energy into people who really don’t want anything to do with her. She does not consume herself with the drama. She does not need approval of others and knows that the people who will stay will love her for all her weirdness and imperfections. The same goes for her friends too. She will honor and respect her friends, family, relationships, and her sacred home. A Goddess will always be by your side no matter what. A lover, protector, and nurture
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